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Yeong Huey's spaceMay 21 [转贴] 人生的七味心药 来源: http://www.5xue.com/modules/bbs/viewthread.php?tid=171088&extra=page%3D1 人生一定要懂的七味心药 人生在世,既短暂又坎坷、既荣幸又无奈、既富裕又贫穷、既辉 煌又落魄、既坚强又脆弱、既开心又难过、既快乐又失落、既亮丽又黯然、既善良又狠心、既热情又冷漠、既神奇又平淡、既美好又苦涩、既博爱又妒嫉、既正直又 小气、既获取又失去等等,总是相辅相成的纠缠着我们的人生圈子。 然而,我们无论如何都必须要懂人生的七味心药:“心善,善乐好施;心宽,宽大为怀;心正,正大光明;心静,静心如水;心怡,怡然自得;心安,安常处顺;心诚,诚心诚意。”这样,我们才能医治自己的“百病”,从而精神焕发、光彩照人! 心善,善乐好施 心地善良是每个人天生的秉性,无须矫揉造作、故弄玄虚。心善了就应该有自己做人处事的原则,不能总是在坐井观天的摆出一副“事不关己,高高挂起”的肿 态,而是自己应当有所心甘情愿的行动,也就是“日行一善”地收获功德的“丰硕果实。”善乐,是一种自觉的真心付出,是一种自然的真情流露,是一种自序的真 挚施舍。和善地与人相处是十分平易近人的礼尚往来,从善如流是大爱无疆的蔓延,积善成德是让爱充满人间的旖旎动人。 心宽,宽大为怀 俗话说:“心宽体胖。”一个时常都是心宽的人,他(她)每天一定会是满面春风、笑容可鞠的人。苗没有树大,树没有山大,山没有海大,海却没有心大!做 人就要记得经常宽大为怀,不要老是为了一些鸡毛蒜皮而贪小便宜,也不要为了一回绳头小利而斤斤计较,更不要为了一时的升官发财而明争暗斗!假如互不相让地 尔虞我诈,到头来大家还是两败俱伤,给别人坐山观虎斗的“渔翁得利”了呢!因而,不管在何时何地自己都要宽大为怀,有时候“急流勇退、退避三舍、明哲保身 ”一下也为何不可。这是一种以退为进的胆定,是一种足智多谋的恬静,是一种釜底抽薪的深沉。 心正,正大光明 心正是没有任何的私心杂念,比较憨厚耿直的固然凸现。心正不是伺机的铤而走险,而是真诚的虚怀若谷;心正不是狡猾的利诱相逼,而是坦荡的助人为乐;心 正不是阴险的同流合污,而是透明的开诚布公;心正不是故意的弄虚作假,而是有意的查漏补缺;心正不是冲动的偷梁换柱,而是坚定的持重老成。 心静,静心如水 心静是生活时自己平心静气的显现、是自己笑看风云的舒畅、是自己洗心革面的超然。静心如水,不是自己象波澜壮阔似的那样乘风破浪、勇往直前的驾驭风 帆,而是自己犹如纹丝不动的潭水中静谧安详却慢条斯理的涟漪。如此,静心如水的人往往是静水深流的表现出一种博大精深的最高境界! 心怡,怡然自得 心怡就是心中总怀着一种乐观向上的独特情愫,没有什么芜艾污泽搅混搀杂。记得这样的一句话:“只要自己的心是晴朗的,就没有什么暴风骤雨的时候!”是 的,心怡了就会心悦诚服的珍视,就会心旷神怡的珍惜。怡然自得,是这种风调雨顺时的热切希望,是这种五谷丰登时的热烈期望,是这种满载而归时的热情祈望。 怡然自得,是自己坚持到底的达观与看开,是自己忠贞不渝的淡泊与明智。 心安,安常处顺 心安理得是人有了理想的收获之后的沉稳与欣慰,而处之泰然却是一种风华的敦实。当然随遇而安也是自己知足常乐的最大内涵,只要自己能够习以为常的生活面对一切风云变幻,那么自己将会赢得威信与可靠、将会博取崇尚与高雅。 心诚,诚心诚意 心诚是人最能够表现自己文化、知识、品味、个性、性格、气质、教养、修养、涵养等的一面镜子,没有心诚休想在生活的空间里拥有一席之地。显然,诚心诚 意是人际关系交往的一种最直接的表达方式,同时诚心诚意也是众望所归的一种牢固信赖,诚心诚意更是人们最终必须追逐的一种高风亮节。 有了“人生的七味心药”随身携带在自己的左右,那么自己也将是拥有了灵丹妙药,自己也就是可以时刻施展妙手回春。纵然,自己的一生更是“世上无难事,只怕有心人”的走向康庄大道却一帆风顺! 转自:飞信迷你首页 May 19 Leaving soon .....Half of May 2009 had gone.... I start counting how many days left from 31st May.... 8 days are all we have before we are officially end. Nov 2007 until May 2009, ........ the amazing pantry where the Pavillon view is the best tension release view. The super cool coffee machine always tempted us to spend more time at the pantry. We saw SpiderMan cleaning Seri Melayu Restaurant roof from the pantry's window. No joke. ![]() We start counting from KLCC tower until Ritz Carlton Hotel, one by one building we analyze their colour, structure and design. We are the traffic reporters. We witnessed the fall of Restaurant Bon Ton, Seafood Restaurant and Choral Cafe, we witnessed the rise of Royale Chulan Hotel. KL Hop On Hop Off is the coolest bus in KL, everyday I see them passing by, bringing tourists from around the world on KL tour. You can laugh at me, but I still think that is the coolest bus in KL, perhaps someday I will take a ride for my own little tour. The toilets here ... fabulously clean ... whenever we want to go toilet, that is the time "Cleaning is in progress". We learnt multi languages here. English, Malay, Chinese and Italian. We moved around quite a lot with our laptop because we truly reflect our company tag line "Mobile Solution". No other vendors move as much as us. When you can't find us in the room, ask around and anyone will just know where had we traveled to. I know I am going to miss the coffee machine and pantry when I have to go soon..... April 23 Chicken A La Cartehttp://www.cultureunplugged.com/play/1081 While we have the luxury to waste our food .... there is a forgotten portion of the society that 'waiting eagerly' to fill their hunger with our "left over" food . Seeing people eat our left over food collected from restaurants' rubbish bins with broad smile on their faces makes me eye sorrow. I am not sure if they are happy because they have something to eat or because they are thankful that outside "their" world, there are a group of "rich" people who are "kind" enough to "waste" money on food and "provide" them the left-over. Think of these "misfortune" people next time when you want to "donate" your unfinished food. Think deeply we all must. January 09 Coming to an end .... finallyAfter much lengthy waiting for a clear direction, finally we got it during yesterday meeting.
Finally, Bank A told us, "your application does not have market, difficult to use, not user friendly, we already engaging with another vendor to develop a more advance version of the same application and your application will be phased out in 3 months time". <--- Engaging another vendor without our knowledge and for the past 1 year, we had been fulfilling all change requests and enhancement until Sept 2008. Since then, whenever we ask when the project going be rolled out after waiting for 3 years, everyone in the project team keeps on telling us, "we are busy with other projects", "all key person are on leave, we cannot have a meeting with you now". All the lame excuses given to us and made us to make changes everywhere with the reasons of "becoming better".
3 years since completion and UAT-ed. From year 2006 until 2008, our application gone through 5 times of UAT and all the promises to launch the application were never been realised but keeps on postponing. The fact is the application is NEVER being push to the market to be used. How can it be not having any market? On what justification this statement came out?
My broken heart break into even smallest pieces with this long waited decision. No laughther, no anger, no more emotional feeling when I heard this news with my own ears. I am not sure if the 'waiting' had 'numbed' my senses or I am gradually turn myself to be 'cruel-er' than previous. Even after 36 hours, I still unable to define my emotional state on this decision.
I admit I did learnt a lot in this project from all aspects, but the 'suffering' of unfair treatment all these years really 'hurt' very deeply.
My ex-team mate Darth Vader told me......"From fail you learn a lot, from success nothing much...this fail is for future R2(ie: me) become super robot."
Thanks Darth Vader & Tripio....for all the encouragement given all the time. R2 will continue to grow stronger and wiser.
Thanks boss for giving me this opportunity and also 'tolerated' with my grumbling all the time. I wouldn't say the nightmare had gone, but I will continue a new life by putting down this 'heavy baggage' immediately.
......"From fail you learn a lot, from success nothing much...this fail is for future R2 become super robot." December 18 3 years vs 2 hoursLife seems to end pretty good for Dec 2008 except the 'never-ending' Bank A project which had been completed 3 years ago and UAT-ed for 5 times but still no sign of when it is going to roll out. I once joked by predicting the project will not roll out even Deepavali 2008. Guess what.....my prediction came true (Time to consider career change to become astrology expert) and now Santa Clause is coming to townnnn still no sign of anything to everything.
After gone through numerous emails, phone calls, meeting, the client (Bank A) not only unable to provide a clear direction on our project faith, its even blocking the project money payment with the excuse "you still owe us outstanding items". However, when we request for the list of outstanding items to be presented to us, none of them know exactly what are the items but keep vaguely meantion "outstanding items".
Speaking about invoices payment, the person in charge has been pushing around the responsbilities among each other in the department. Not answering phone calls, no reply any emails, seems like she has vaporated through the air.
It take us more than 3 years to request for a clear direction on the project and still we are waiting for the Bank to set an suitable timing appointment for the meeting. Reasons given by the Bank A is "we are busy-ing with other projects, bear in mind...you are not the only vendor we handle, we got a lot of other system that we need to deal with". Such an arrogant excuses had been given to us all the time whenever we request for a clear cut decision.
To me, any project that cannot be roll out even after 3 years of development completion is a total failure and having serious defect along the project management process. 3 years is not a short period of time, 3 years is long enough to complete a part-time MBA.
Yesterday, I attended a meeting for my current project with another (Bank R) of the same system nature and in less than 2 hours, all our questions about our future had been answered. We sorted out a clear direction to proceed and achieving win-win situation.
3 years vs 2 hours => Bank A vs Bank R ==> nothing to compare!
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